This same friend gets into a fury if she misplaces her sunglasses.
I'm impressed. And I'm also encouraged by the thought that real trouble may call up resources we didn't know we had. I happen to get unhinged if my email doesn't do right. And I hate to think about a proportionate response to a crisis that's many times larger.
Maybe we expend our furies safely on the little stuff and haul out our best in the face of the most daunting.